As a common practice, I try to aid people in doing the best that they can. This is something that I think everyone should do, but I know that because of most of the risks many people would give up. I am not sure what it is about me, but people will end up telling me about the thoughts and regrets. It the person asks me for help, I tell them how I see it and the steps that I would take to solving the problems they stated.
Telling people the how you see them, normally ends up with the person terminating the friendship. Maybe I am just giving the advice wrong, but every time it happens. I have seen results in either direction, those that followed my advice had a recession and then their life just picked up. A few that discredited my opinion without putting much thought into, are living lives that hurt their loved ones. I am not saying that my advice is right or correct, but thinking about what I am saying and applying it to yourself yields positive results.
I wish that there was a way to tell people how to work on their problems without losing them as a friend. Because currently I do what I can the help people and have to put faith in them working on themselves, and it hurts to lose a friend like that.
Thats where this blog headline comes from, I am 'throwing change to see what happens.' and as far as I can tell, no one reads this blog. I just have to have faith that one day after I have forgotten that I made this blog, someone will stumble on it and get something out of it.
Happy New Year!!
-NK
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